Look deeply into the eyes of your audience. Wink a little, flirt coquettishly with fluttering lashes. Single one man out and look directly at him. Make them feel like they are the only man, or woman in the room. Back away a little if you please, so he can see all of you. But remember this isn’t a staring match, so don’t freak onlookers out with a beady eyed stare of death….
Keeping your knees bent is crucial when giving a lapdance, as it brings your jiggling booty to his crotch area ie: you are on his lap. It also makes your bottom stick out more, increases the freedom of movement.
Forget the fastenings
Don’t sweat the bra-straps, zips, knicker elastics and ribbon ties of this world. Yes, they will get caught, stuck, and prove damn fiddly just when you least expect it. If you can, ask your audience for help – most will be happy to oblige, and it will create a rapport and waste time (hurrah!) Or else flop a breast out, shove your tits in his face, and whilst he is distracted, you are free to sort the offending fastening out.
Breathe, Smile, Think SEX!
It will show in your lapdance if you are fantasising about Brad Pitt going down on you whilst you are fed chocolate covered strawberries by Orlando Bloom. If you want to dance sexy, you have to think sexy. And please don’t get so nervous that you stop breathing, begin to shake and burst into tears. I’ve seen it happen with the new girls. Just think Hollywood heart throb, and not ‘does he like me, how big is my butt?
Slow, sensual movements are great. Pretend the chair is an ardous mountain, not a jungle-monkey climbing frame. Go slowly, not jerky. (unless we are talking butt wiggling, in which case you can go like the clappers!)
So, I hope you like my top 5 tips for giving a guy a lapdance. Follow these tips and you could be wearing a bin bag dress and he’ll like it. Aww, bless. Men. They can be so simple sometimes, hey?
by : SassyLapdancer
Check Sassy out at www.londonlapdancer.com.